Oh Maaan…

 

Ok, so I did an annoying thing. If I knew someone who did this I’d be irritated. Prepare to be peeved.

I looked for advice and then I fully ignored it.

I texted Date Guy back.

Yeah, I don’t know why I did it! A guy who leaves you hanging for a fortnight after a date is NOT INTERESTED. I know this, I wasn’t even THAT into him. Why did I do this to myself!?

Its seriously bumming me out. I text him after 36 hours, then he left it 24 hours to get back to me, then I left it a scant hour (I was being the bigger man!) then he text me straight back. We said we’d have a coffee and I said the end of the week would suit me. Now its 8pm on Friday and guess what?

HE’S DONE IT TO ME AGAIN.

No text, no contact. That’s fine, because I was going to back out of it anyway. But we had a date! You’d think he’d have the manners to text me so I could reject him properly! It’s BASIC textiquette! UGH!

Anyway I think the lesson is if you seek advice, take it!

VIVA LA LIFE LESSONS!

Surprise Surprise

 

Oh Cilla, you had it figured out, nobody fucked with you!

So Date Guy is back in contact! Surprise surprise! More than a week after I text him and nearly two since I last saw him Date Guy is back with a bang (well, maybe less a bang, more a mildly apologetic text, but you catch my drift!)

So he wants to meet up again, the last date was 8 hours long, we didn’t do the bold but we had the chats and a few whiskeys and we went back to his place.

One date and then a two week absence doesn’t exactly scream interest. And to tell the truth it kind of put me off the whole internet dating thing. It was quite deflating not to hear from him after I thought we got on so well.

So what do we think? Should I text him back?

Do we allow this kind of thing?

VIVA LA SECOND DATE?